Valentine's day is just around the corner and many couples are feeling the pressure fueled by Cosmo and the romance industry to “spice things up” with their significant other. It’s possible that if you’re in a long term relationship you will spend some time looking back on your first days spent together longing for the passion and intimacy you once shared. Entering into a long term relationship doesn’t mean your hottest days are behind you, but it just might take a little mor

"The future’s so bright, I gotta wear shades!" -Timbuk 3 As cheesy as those lyrics are, if you are wanting to make a positive change in your relationship, the first step might be to dig out those old Rose Colored sunglasses. Remember the ones through which you viewed your partner at the beginning stages of your relationship? The hormones rushing around in your brain in the first stage of falling in love help to create those lovely glasses through a potent mix of dopamine, nor